Ryan LOVES bath time. Even if he is in a terrible mood, when he hears the water going he cheers right up. We have started playing "bath hat" which he thinks is very funny, he laughs and screams with delight. There is nothing more fun then wearing an outfit on your head and then taking a nice hot bath. Oh the simple pleasures of being a baby!
Here are the 4 month stats on Ryan: he weighs 14 pounds 7 ¾ ounces (this is the 49th percentile), he is 24 ½ inches in length (50%), and his head is 17inches (75%).. which means that he is a perfect healthy baby except he has more brains then most babies!
He is also super strong, when the doctor pulled on his arms to see if he would sit up, he decided that sitting up was too easy instead he stood up (with her holding onto his hands), she commented that he was abnormally strong and I was in for it.
Ryan had his 4 month doctor’s appointment today, for all of you that don’t know, with a baby you have doctor’s appointments every 2 months for…. Well I don’t know how long but until baby starts slowing down with the whole development/growth thing. I actually don’t mind going that much, it is nice to get official progress reports- today was the exception; we had the doctors appointment from hell.
So Ryan and I arrive at the appointment about 5 minutes early, Don arrives shortly after; we take our seats after signing in. All seems well right? Well, an hour later we are still sitting there. Ryan has had a total melt down and was now sleeping in my painfully asleep arms. Apparently our doctor was running an hour late, which they decide to tell us after we have been sitting there for 50 minutes. Ryan has gone right through his scheduled nap time, thus the melt down. (Ryan has a schedule- we made our appointment around his schedule- they called and moved it to a less convenient time because… someone wanted a longer appointment so obviously we get kicked... bad form).
So FINALLY we get shown into the office where we get Ryan all ready, he gets weighed and measured, and then the nurse leaves and we are yet again waiting. This time Ryan is in just his diaper in the cold room, and we end up waiting about 25 minutes for the doctor to come in, by which time Ryan is utterly miserable…. We have been there 2 hours, Ryan is quickly approaching his feeding time, I being stupid thought we would be home by now and so I have brought no food. She checks him out; everything seems fine (I will give more details in a less ranting post). We establish which shots we are getting this appointment- in other words she tells me something wrong and I correct her (Dtap and Hib only for this appointment). Don had to take a work related phone call and had to go outside- he too stupidly thought we would be done within 2 hours of appointment time.
After the doctor leaves, another nurse walks in and says “so Ryan is getting his Polio shot”…. Uh no! Read a chart much? I tell her that we are not getting Polio this appointment, she looks at the shots in her hand (2 of them) and goes “huh…?” sets the shots down next to Ryan and says, “these are right”… I am freaking out, she wants to give my son shots and she doesn’t even know what they are. I ask her “are you sure you know what those are” and she goes “maybe I will go ask someone”…. OH MY GOD, REALLY???? While she was gone I looked at the shots and they were in fact correct, it was easy to look at them considering she left them WITHIN REACH OF RYAN.
Needless to say it didn’t go well, Ryan made it home and ate like he had never been fed before and took a much needed nap (2 hours late). I have really liked my pediatrician before this appointment. I have learned that in the future I will call ahead of time to see if the doctor is running on schedule, I will only schedule appointments with doctors I really want to see and most of all I will know exactly what is supposed to be given/ done at any given appointment because I cannot be guaranteed that anyone else knows or cares what is supposed to be done. Rant over… on with our normally scheduled programming.
Ryan decided that he was a big boy now that he is 4 months old and for his “birthday” he decided that he was SO over naps. He lasted until 3:00 before losing control. He was asleep before I finished swaddling him. Poor guy, hopefully he sleeps well tonight so tomorrow he is a happy camper. I will tell you how big he is (height and weight) after tomorrows doctors appointment.
Ryan is 1/3 of a year old already! Can you believe it? I think he has hit all his milestones. I try not to read what the milestones are, I feel like if I’m not in denial I will be able to tell if something is wrong. He can roll both from his front to his back and from his back to his front. He can hold up his head as long as he wants to. He “talks” meaning that he really sounds like he is talking though we can’t yet figure out what he is trying to say. He grabs and plays with toys (and cameras as you can see in the picture). He sits with a little help. He wants to crawl, if I put my hand on his feet he can push off and scooch on his stomach. Everyday there is something different... his newest thing is that when he gets super excited, he wiggles out of control (you have to be prepared or you might catch a headbutt in the chin). Oh and he has grown a faux-hawk... I swear I didn't do this to him, it is completely natural. I've attached a picture of its fabulousness
They say at 4 months you can start feeding babies solid foods. This of course is disputed so I don’t want to get a bunch of emails telling me to wait. The range is 4-6 months to introduce solids…. I am going to make my own judgment based on Ryan. He is already trying to take food off my plate and staring at the food when I am eating. We are going to the pediatrician’s office Wednesday so we will see what they say (before they give the next round of shots… boo).
Ryan turns 4 months old next week. Crazy how fast time goes when you have a baby, it seems like everyday they are doing something new. Ryan is full of personality already. I was talking to my mom the other day about how Ryan was right after his birth compared to how he is now.
One story from his first day sums up what I think Ryan is going to be like as he grows up. We were all in the hospital room (Rachel, David, Don, my mom, Ryan) and someone told Ryan he needed to do something… eat or cry or something along those lines. Right after they were done speaking Ryan let out a noise that sounded unmistakably like “WHY?!”… So now we all joke that Don and I are in trouble because our child’s first word, on day one was “why?”
I will have more on Ryan turning 4 months next week when it actually happens!
Ryan's other girlfriend Fiona
Ava is looking very skeptically at Ryan
Ryan wants to figure Ava out, he was staring at her and reaching for her
New Toy! Ryan is a huge fan of this saucer, it is exciting for him because everytime he gets tired of playing with one of the things, he just moves over a little and ah ha! there is something new to grab. His neck is strong enough now to play with no problem.
Loving the Baby Bjorn, we are off to take a walk yay! 
Ok mom seriously, you have taken 12 pictures of me, let's just go on the walk already.Ryan is starting to develop stranger anxiety. I didn’t think that these things started until like 7 months, but apparently it is just not true in our case. He is fine while someone he knows is holding him, but if he is picked up by someone else he looks freaked out and if not given back to someone he knows he will start to cry. I have mixed feelings about it. I feel bad that he cries when people I know hold him, he is generally so “talkative” and happy and they miss it. On the other hand I am glad that he feels safe around the people he does know, and honestly if a stranger gets too close (which for some reason a lot of people do when we are out in public) I’m glad he doesn’t want them to be in his face (germs, kidnapping and other mommy paranoia). I have a feeling this is going to get worse before it gets better, so if Ryan cries in your presence he means nothing by it, it is just how he rolls these days.
Lately I have been going through what a lot of new moms go through. I am wondering what my future holds. Should I go to work? Is there any way that I can do that and keep Ryan out of daycare? What sort of job should I get? If I do go back to work, when should I do so? Can we give Ryan all we want to if I don’t go back to work? On the flip side, is it fair to put him in daycare if we can afford not to? But honestly, can we survive once my student loans become due?
These questions have been all consuming since I had a conversation with my loan company last week. The panic grows stronger every time I think about it. At some point I will have to make a decision. Don tells me that we will be fine, that I shouldn’t worry so much and that everything will work out. He tells me on a daily basis to chill out.
I will soon have a law degree that I worked entirely too hard to get, shouldn't I at least try to use it?
Last night I had a dream that I was in the car on the way to a job interview. I was almost there with about 10 minutes to spare when I realized I was in sweatpants and a ratty t-shirt! I had totally forgotten to change into presentable attire for my interview. Read into that what you will, but I am not taking it as a good sign.
I'm not going to hide the fact that I am not a huge fan of the republican candidate and his running mate. I have been watching the convention this week and have been less then thrilled that they even have the possibility of being in the oval office in the near future. Enjoy this little clip... oh I just love the media.
http://www.thedailyshow.com/video/index.jhtml?videoId=184086
Everyone should go out and vote... you can find voter registration forms online, you just have to send it in and then go out to vote.
Since Ryan was born we have received countless comments about how much Ryan looks like Don. Now I admit there are times I look at him and I see Don Jr. (Actually Don III as the case may be). But I have proof that Ryan has a little bit of me in him too :) I haven't seen any baby pictures of Don before, if I get my hands on some I will post them. Until then you can check out mine.
Me at 5 months
Ryan at 3 months
